In the words of psychologist Robert Cialdini: what is cheap is undervalued; what requires effort is cherished. That is not an opinion, but a scientifically proven principle. On a free, low-threshold platform, no one has to make an effort. Men invest nothing there — no time, no money, no energy. And what costs us nothing, we also treat as if it is worth nothing. Where a man has to invest, attachment is formed. The more effort, time, and attention a man puts into a woman, the s

You increase your likability when you surround yourself with people who think, create, and evolve at a similar level. Interaction within such a select group strengthens not only your visibility but also your symbolic value. (INTERACTION!!) Language is one of the most underestimated status signals in this regard! The way you phrase things determines how people perceive your intellect, your background, and your place in the social hierarchy. Anyone who uses language that is too

Most people spend their lives at a pace that leaves them hardly any room for real development. Because I didn't have to work much, I could spend eight hours a day studying, researching, and broadening my knowledge. That is a different pace of life — and ultimately, it shapes a different type of person. Last night, for example, just like every day, I listened for six hours to training sessions on psychology and political forecasting. That kind of in-depth study requires time,

What we see is selective, because our brain instinctively focuses on dangers. We see a small fraction of what is going on, because we have a limited capacity for perception. Our thoughts are therefore subjective. Churchill: “Failure is seldom fatal.” Artgallery Boukreeva The first thing you can do is to rid yourself of thoughts with a negative charge. There are many NLP techniques available. For example: distance yourself from the feeling of guilt. Instead of saying: “I feel

A poor mental state can lead to low-quality performance, even though you have already proven to be able to deliver very high performance in your profession. When we criticize ourselves, our body experiences it as an attack and can even have an effect on a hormonal level, which causes problems. In NLP and psychology, there are anchoring techniques that can help you build more self-confidence. This phenomenon will also increase your charisma. People like to be attracted to char

Foto bron: zie hier Being charismatic can not only bring you social benefits, but can also be financially rewarding. Fortunately, charisma is not an innate talent, but a set of behaviors that you can learn and consciously use. No one is charismatic 24/7, and you don’t have to be an extremely extroverted person to develop charismatic behavior. Even as an introvert, you can master this skill – sometimes introversion is even an advantage. A common myth is that physical attractiv

bron foto 1. Have you ever dreamed of being famous? A star or a big person? 2. What does your ideal day look like? 3. Who would you like to spend your ideal day with? 4. What are your greatest positive character traits? 5. Who are you most grateful to? p.s. Start a journal in which you write down your gratitude. 6. What would you change about the way your parents raised you? 7. If you could relive your childhood, what would it be like, with everything you missed out on? 8. If

video Ask yourself these questions: What did you like to do as a child? What gives you energy? What does your family (best friends) say about you? What do you want people to say about you? Suppose nothing were to limit you, what would you like to do now? What is your self-image? What can you do differently to change your self-image? Who do you want to be? What activities give you satisfaction? Why do you do what you do and for what purpose? Can this serve a greater purpose? H

Dress code = visual language Bron foto: blad Quote 93% of communication is non-verbal, while only 7% is language. Yet language is the icing on the cake, because eloquence reflects your level of thinking. Nice clothes, a straight posture, a confident and deep voice without squeaky intonation - all of these contribute to how you come across. Sentences that are affirmative should also remain affirmative. Your choice of words says a lot about your social level. Your outward prese

93% of communication is non-verbal When I sold Manitou and Genie aerial work platforms to Russia for Colle in Sittard, I noticed that Russians often wanted to visit. The first thing they did was to look at the company premises, including the numerous machines parked there. The technical service department was also impressive. Why do they do this? To ensure that the company is financially strong. After all, if you have to pay one hundred thousand for a machine, you want to be

Het is een moeilijke vraag - zeker als je een kindertrauma hebt gehad, waardoor je hebt geleerd te overleven. Je werk sluit niet aan bij je echte talenten, waardoor je je niet gelukkig voelt in wat je doet.

Hoogbegaafdheid wordt vaak over het hoofd gezien door een verkeerde diagnose, zoals ADHD of ADD. Hoogbegaafden krijgen vaak onterecht de diagnose ADHD of ADD, wat volledig misplaatst is.