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Why is Tinder not a good medium to meet a high-class partner?

In the words of psychologist Robert Cialdini: what is cheap is undervalued; what requires effort is cherished. That is not an opinion, but a scientifically proven principle.


On a free, low-threshold platform, no one has to make an effort. Men invest nothing there — no time, no money, no energy. And what costs us nothing, we also treat as if it is worth nothing.


Where a man has to invest, attachment is formed. The more effort, time, and attention a man puts into a woman, the stronger his feelings for her become. Investment creates value. Value creates emotional involvement.


Tinder works exactly the other way around: minimal investment, maximum choice, zero responsibility.


That is why it is not a place where you will meet a high-class partner.


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