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When Trauma Colors Love: How Pleasers Attract Narcissists and How to Stop It (PTSS)
Complex PTSD exhibits overlapping characteristics with borderline personality disorder. It is not congenital but arises from early childhood trauma or other significant experiences. It manifests, among other things, in perfectionism, harsh self-criticism, critical judgments of others, and disproportionate emotional reactions to triggers.

Inna Boukreeva
6 days ago3 min read


Why is Tinder not a good medium to meet a high-class partner?
In the words of psychologist Robert Cialdini: what is cheap is undervalued; what requires effort is cherished. That is not an opinion, but a scientifically proven principle. On a free, low-threshold platform, no one has to make an effort. Men invest nothing there — no time, no money, no energy. And what costs us nothing, we also treat as if it is worth nothing. Where a man has to invest, attachment is formed. The more effort, time, and attention a man puts into a woman, the s

Inna Boukreeva
Jun 241 min read


Likability is not a matter of popularity, but of positioning
You increase your likability when you surround yourself with people who think, create, and evolve at a similar level. Interaction within such a select group strengthens not only your visibility but also your symbolic value. (INTERACTION!!) Language is one of the most underestimated status signals in this regard! The way you phrase things determines how people perceive your intellect, your background, and your place in the social hierarchy. Anyone who uses language that is too

Inna Boukreeva
Jun 172 min read


The Rat Race: How a Lack of Information Keeps People on the Wrong Path
Most people spend their lives at a pace that leaves them hardly any room for real development. Because I didn't have to work much, I could spend eight hours a day studying, researching, and broadening my knowledge. That is a different pace of life — and ultimately, it shapes a different type of person. Last night, for example, just like every day, I listened for six hours to training sessions on psychology and political forecasting. That kind of in-depth study requires time,

Inna Boukreeva
Jun 171 min read
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