Narcissism

People who enter into destructive relationships often have a similar situation at home. They feel comfortable in circumstances that resemble what they experienced in their childhood. Based on insights from psychology, Inna investigates whether childhood traumas are responsible for why we always attract the same kind of partners. What is codependency, and what does it mean to be addicted to relationships? Someone can efface themselves and not recognize the signs of an abusive relationship. Her two books offer tools to recognize people with mental disorders at an early stage and at the same time look deeper at yourself and understand yourself better. In addition, communication advice is discussed, and some useful skills from the science of neurolinguistic programming (NLP) are discussed. Narcissism as a disorder (A narcissist does not communicate, a narcissist manipulates. A narcissist deliberately uses misleading language with ambiguous words. Deep down, a narcissist believes that he himself is the victim. In this way, he forces his victim to act as the perpetrator. In his communication, he tries to convey a message that there is an agreement between the two of them and that his victim has agreed to something. This is not the case. A narcissist sows doubt and tries to convince his victim that he or she is bad. A narcissist always uses answers such as 'maybe,' 'could'. Some of the destructive language techniques that a narcissist uses are: contradictory messages and gaslighting (twisting the truth to make the other person doubt themselves).